So which is it - hustle or chill? The self-help porn of the modern era has us being lectured on the way forward. Some gurus will have you believe that the only path is to surrender and give up your desires, while others will tell you to hustle and grind your way to success. Knowing which is the path is an impossible trade-off. Might we not just embrace the paradox and live in the season that's most appropriate for your lives?